Nonchalant? Not my style!
In this first post of 2026, let me begin with something wildly un/cool. Nonchalant is the new trend, the new personality, the new badge of emotional “ cool .” It’s everywhere right now. People take pride in replying late, showing less care, and acting as if nothing really matters to them (sure, it does piss me off). And yeah, maybe it looks effortless and evolved, but honestly? I hate it !(strictly personal opinion) . I don’t want a friend or a partner who is nonchalant. I’m not that way, and I’m not expecting the people in my life to be either. I’ve always imagined what it would be like to experience things fully, to feel chosen, considered, and cared for without having to ask. If I love someone, I will move heaven and earth to do things for them. I love loudly. I care the most. I show up. That’s just who I am. So no, I...